Overview
Respond compassionately to self-harm or suicidal thoughts, treat physical injury or poisoning first, develop an individual formulation rather than a score-based prediction, identify immediate and contextual danger, create a collaborative safety plan, and secure psychosocial assessment and reliable follow-up.
Start with calm validation: thank the young person for explaining, treat pain and ask what they need now. Avoid demanding a promise never to self-harm or framing the episode as attention seeking. Establish what happened before, during and after the act; the method, dose, timing, expected lethality, precautions against discovery, help-seeking and feelings about survival. Ask separately about the function of self-injury and desire to die because both can coexist and change rapidly. Obtain collateral information with consent where possible, but immediate protection can justify proportionate sharing.
The mental-state assessment includes mood, hopelessness, anxiety, agitation, psychosis, mania, dissociation, intoxication, cognition and ability to engage. Explore sleep, pain, eating disorder, substances, neurodevelopment, medication changes, loss, conflict, abuse, exploitation, bullying, discrimination and online exposure. Identify protective relationships, future commitments, beliefs, pets, responsibilities, coping and previous successful help. Protective factors reduce neither the need to ask about current intent nor the significance of access to a lethal method; they become practical elements of the safety plan.