Synopsis
Provide compassionate, trauma-informed care after miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, termination for fetal anomaly, stillbirth, neonatal death or traumatic birth; recognise when grief is complicated by PTSD, depression or acute risk and offer evidence-based support without coercive debriefing.
- Use the person's own terms for the pregnancy and baby, acknowledge what happened directly, and do not rank losses by gestation or assume the expected emotional response.
- First confirm that physical follow-up is complete: bleeding, pain, infection, lactation, hypertensive symptoms, investigations and future obstetric questions can sustain psychological distress.
- Grief may involve waves of yearning, numbness, anger, guilt, relief or avoidance; diagnosis depends on syndrome, danger and impairment, not whether emotion fits a timetable.
- Assess PTSD through re-experiencing, avoidance, negative beliefs, hyperarousal and dissociation, while also checking depression, psychosis, mania, substances, sleep and suicide.
- NICE recommends offering advice and support to people who want to discuss traumatic birth or miscarriage and considering the effect on partners and family.
- For PTSD after traumatic birth, miscarriage, stillbirth or neonatal death, offer trauma-focused CBT or EMDR in accordance with NICE PTSD guidance.
- Do not impose a single-session intervention focused on reliving the traumatic birth; supportive listening and practical information are different from compulsory high-intensity debriefing.
- Choices about seeing, holding or photographing a stillborn baby and keeping mementos should be sensitively revisited by an experienced practitioner, without pressure in either direction.